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New Years Resolutions

Posted on:January 3, 2022 at 12:13 PM

It’s probably no surprise to anyone reading this that I think new years resolutions are crap. Why resolve at this arbitrary point in time? Look at the data about how many resolutions are really helpful.

However, similar to Friday Nights, there is something about the turning of the page of the year that motivates a reflective and goal setting mindset. So if you find yourself unable to control getting caught up in the cultural wave, I have a word of advice. Focus less on goals and more on skills (e.g. improve reading ability, not read 100 books). But not nonsense skills like juggling, but identify real internal skills that come in handy in all things in life. Focus improving your skill to get out of bed even when you don’t feel like it. Or your ability to quickly recognize secondary vs primary emotions. Or maybe you want to improve your ability to be patient and listen more carefully. Or maybe it’s your ability to recognize and appreciate the extraordinary in the mundane. Or the ability to love and treat all beings the same way you would your closest family.

Work on something this year that you’ll look back on for the rest of your life as a turning point for the better.